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The girl next door♥  Dirah Rahim
I was borned on the 8 April 1992. I'm too young to be driving but old enough to be in love.
Music is the love and she can't live without it because she'll lose her head.She like bright neon colours and city highways
filled with red cars, rainy sunday afternoons.She also a die-hard fan of Hersheys and Fondu.And She loves Pink!
Teach me how to dance bby! .
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♥Theory about a guy after their break~up
Friday, February 5, 2010
♥Third Theory, Day Three A guy would rarely call his close friends immediately after a breakup. In fact, he wouldn't go out of his way to broadcast the news. Two reason for this: ego, and it's just not cool. Getting dumped is not something a guy would boast you. Being tossed out like yesterday's salad suggests he's not good enough: a bad catch, unworthy, with a low market value, etc. Our egos are unable to handle pity or being look down on following a painful rejection. Another reason a guy won't call his close buddies to tell them he's broken up with you is because he doesn't think the experience deserves this attention. It's not that the breakup isn't significant to us; it's just that we don't naturally want to talk it through with our male buddies. All the guys i interviewed said they did not immediately call a friend, but instead mentioned their breakup while hanging out as usual. This shouldn't be surprising because, statiscally, unlike women, men's social networks are rarely based on emotional bonding. Male relationships are often formed around an activity or interest. It feels foreign to suddenly call a buddy up to wail about the breakup. That's just weird. Even when we do talk about breakup, it'd be brief and over in seconds. Our poor buddy's wretched feelings would be succinctly summarised into, "Yah, feel pain lor." As friends, we aren't likely to talk in depth about you either, unless of course you were a real jerk to him and we didn't like you to begin with.
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