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The girl next door♥  Dirah Rahim
I was borned on the 8 April 1992. I'm too young to be driving but old enough to be in love.
Music is the love and she can't live without it because she'll lose her head.She like bright neon colours and city highways
filled with red cars, rainy sunday afternoons.She also a die-hard fan of Hersheys and Fondu.And She loves Pink!
Teach me how to dance bby! .
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Friday, February 12, 2010
Happy Valentine's Day and Happy Chinese New Year. Got Hang Bao,oranges and flower from work at NTUC Income. Now,im off to KL with brother and Kak Ida. As planned,Sat go Genting Highland, Sun go Sunway Lagoon and Mon back to Singapore(guess so) Hehe. Saturday, February 6, 2010
Town~ing with my ex~schoolmates♥   ♥Theory about a guy after their break~up
Friday, February 5, 2010
♥Third Theory, Day Three A guy would rarely call his close friends immediately after a breakup. In fact, he wouldn't go out of his way to broadcast the news. Two reason for this: ego, and it's just not cool. Getting dumped is not something a guy would boast you. Being tossed out like yesterday's salad suggests he's not good enough: a bad catch, unworthy, with a low market value, etc. Our egos are unable to handle pity or being look down on following a painful rejection. Another reason a guy won't call his close buddies to tell them he's broken up with you is because he doesn't think the experience deserves this attention. It's not that the breakup isn't significant to us; it's just that we don't naturally want to talk it through with our male buddies. All the guys i interviewed said they did not immediately call a friend, but instead mentioned their breakup while hanging out as usual. This shouldn't be surprising because, statiscally, unlike women, men's social networks are rarely based on emotional bonding. Male relationships are often formed around an activity or interest. It feels foreign to suddenly call a buddy up to wail about the breakup. That's just weird. Even when we do talk about breakup, it'd be brief and over in seconds. Our poor buddy's wretched feelings would be succinctly summarised into, "Yah, feel pain lor." As friends, we aren't likely to talk in depth about you either, unless of course you were a real jerk to him and we didn't like you to begin with.
♥Theory about a guy after their break~up
Thursday, February 4, 2010
♥Second Theory, Day Two After a day of repression or tears, the heartbroken guy will start to think about communicating with you. Whether he does or not depends on how strong his will is. His logical, ego-preserving side is telling him not to be pathetic, while his emotional side yearns to have contact with you. If you do receive an SMS saying how much he misses you, gently reinforce the fact that it's over. The last thing you want is to give him any impression that the romance may be rekindled. If he calls and you don't think you can be firm but understanding in the face of a grovelling guy, ignore the call. He may get angry with you or think you worse than the devil, but it's better than giving him hope. A guy freshly dumped by someone he loves is emotionally vulnerable. Neither he nor you is thinking clearly at this stage, so it's best to avoid contact. So if he doesn't call or send you an SMS, do not under circumstances call or text him. The concern will only befuddle him and prolong the pain. A good breakup is a clean breakup. It's pretty much impossible to be "just friend" at this stage, so don't think for a moment you're doing him any good by caring for him. You broke the guy's heart, remember? Labels: ♥I Love You ♥Theory about a guy after their break~up
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
♥First Theory, Day one.  You're the first person who comes to mind when he emerges from a night of restless sleep. Within seconds,he remembers the awful event and either rolls over to sleep it off,or starts crying again. Yes,men cry. Even the toughest jock and the manliest man will shed buckets if his heart is broken. The reason you never think they do is they refuse to cry in front of others. Blame it on social pressure,ego,testosterone, lack of tear ducts,whatever. Unless you're his mother,a guy would never cry in the presence of girl. Some guys,however, won't shed a tear. That doesn't mean he's an unfeeling jerk who didn't have any emotional attachment to the relationship. It's just that the emotional numbness is caused by a familiar coping mechanism called repression. It's easier not to think about the pain,and instead bury it deep and wait for time to heal. Guys may claim to be OK,but in reality,not talking about their feelings is simply the easiest,or only,way they know how to deal with pain. Moral of the story,they're just like us,it only that they do not want to show it infront of us. Cos it so not cool. Labels: ♥I'm glad that we remain like this
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